The very sense of exploration of each other binds people together and may be that is why the essence of any relationship fades away within a short span of time as there is no mystery involved any further. But then does that mean a relationship to last forever should involve a game of hide and seek to be played by the two in a relationship for-ever.
Well, i have some interesting philosophies in answering that, though they are somewhat subjective. According to me there are two types of people...those who believe in short term relationships and the others who believe in long term ones.
People in short term relationships get over one and enter into another, in search of the mystery lost in the previous one. At the end of it all they have lot of stories to tell their grandchildren. On the other hand, the ones in long term relations, make compromise and lot of compromises with everything around them even with their soul it seems. They get committed and live under the pretense of happiness...But now let me talk about things based on facts and stats...and it goes:
People in relationships are generally happier than other people, a new Cornell University study finds. And spouses have the highest sense of well-being, whether they are happily married or not.Interestingly, even those in relatively unhappy marriages appear to benefit from being married, Kamp Dush said, perhaps because they benefit from marriage's stability, commitment and social status....sounds weirdo ain't it???
I believe men and women can only enjoy a monogamous relationship if both work at it daily. When both do their part, relationships would be heaven on earth. It is a partnership of the most intimate kind and requires daily maintenance and a copious amount of patience.
Well, i have some interesting philosophies in answering that, though they are somewhat subjective. According to me there are two types of people...those who believe in short term relationships and the others who believe in long term ones.
People in short term relationships get over one and enter into another, in search of the mystery lost in the previous one. At the end of it all they have lot of stories to tell their grandchildren. On the other hand, the ones in long term relations, make compromise and lot of compromises with everything around them even with their soul it seems. They get committed and live under the pretense of happiness...But now let me talk about things based on facts and stats...and it goes:
People in relationships are generally happier than other people, a new Cornell University study finds. And spouses have the highest sense of well-being, whether they are happily married or not.Interestingly, even those in relatively unhappy marriages appear to benefit from being married, Kamp Dush said, perhaps because they benefit from marriage's stability, commitment and social status....sounds weirdo ain't it???
I believe men and women can only enjoy a monogamous relationship if both work at it daily. When both do their part, relationships would be heaven on earth. It is a partnership of the most intimate kind and requires daily maintenance and a copious amount of patience.
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Nice Post. Ideas well expressed. Seems like you have been thinking a lot about love and relationships last year.
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